First up, one of the most important areas for pretty much everyone: people skills. I hope you can get a bit of wisdom and inspiration out of these quotes and from the people who have walked before us.

　　首先，對(duì)我們每個(gè)人來(lái)說(shuō)都很重要的就是人際關(guān)系。我希望，你能夠從以下這些名人名言中擷取到一些智慧和感悟，畢竟這些名人已經(jīng)走在了我們前面，為我們做出了榜樣。

　　1. Aesop: No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.

　　伊索：勿以善小而不為。

　　2. Doris M. Smith: Arguing with a fool proves there are two.

　　桃瑞絲-史密斯(作家)：與傻瓜爭(zhēng)吵只能說(shuō)明你也是個(gè)傻瓜。

　　3. Alexander Solshenitsen:The less you speak, the more you will hear.

　　亞歷山大-索爾仁尼琴(俄羅斯文學(xué)家，1970年諾貝爾文學(xué)家得主)：說(shuō)得越少，聽到得越多。

　　4. Andrew Carnegie: As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do.

　　安德魯-卡耐基(美國(guó)鋼鐵大王，杰出慈善家)：我活得年歲越大，就越少注意別人是怎么說(shuō)的。我只看他們是怎么做的。

　　5. Aristotle: Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.

　　亞里士多德：友誼就是一個(gè)靈魂寄居在兩具身體里。

　　6. Madonna: A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That's why they don't get what they want.

　　麥當(dāng)娜：很多人不敢說(shuō)出他們想要什么，所以他們得不到他們想要的東西。

　　7. Russell Ewing: A boss creates fear, a leader confidence. A boss fixes blame, a leader corrects mistakes. A boss knows all, a leader asks questions. A boss makes work drudgery, a leader makes it interesting. A boss is interested in himself or herself, a leader is interested in the group.

　　羅素-尤因：老板制造恐懼，領(lǐng)袖帶來(lái)信心。老板指責(zé)他人，領(lǐng)袖糾正錯(cuò)誤。老板無(wú)所不知，領(lǐng)袖知人善任。老板使工作枯燥，領(lǐng)袖使工作有趣。老板關(guān)注員工，領(lǐng)袖關(guān)注團(tuán)隊(duì)。

　　8.Wilfred Peterson:Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others.

　　威爾弗雷德-皮特森：善待自己，愛惜自己，原諒自己，只有當(dāng)我們能正確地對(duì)待自己時(shí)，我們才能正確地對(duì)待他人。

　　9. Og Mandino: Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.

　　奧格-曼狄諾(作家、演講家，著有《世界上最偉大的推銷員》一書)：從今天開始，對(duì)待每個(gè)人就好像他們?cè)诮裉煳缫怪�前就將離開人世。把你所有的關(guān)愛、善良和理解都賦予他們。你的生活從此將會(huì)不一樣。

　　10. Ralph Nichols: The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood.

　　拉爾夫-尼科爾斯：人類最基本的需要就是理解和被理解。